Coaching

“Thanks to Emma, I’m having the best sex of my 25 year marriage.” anon

This is the place to be to create more pleasure in life and bed.

What would it feel like to live in a way that is
beyond what the world expects of you?
To live in a way that is deeply intuitive and meaningful to you?
Deeply connected to your pleasure and your partner/s, in both life, and bed?

“I love that the language you use resonates, it helps fuel the excitement. You showing up with such enthusiasm for my journey bolsters me. I feel like you’re cheering me on, not even from the sidelines, but running alongside me.”

Kate Beahan, actress

My clients consistently say:

  • I have so much fun and pleasure in my life now
  • I feel so much more confident in my body
  • I feel in control of my own life
  • I have the most incredible epiphanies in our sessions
  • I feel so much calmer
  • I had NO idea pleasure could be this powerful
  • I didn’t know my nervous system was creating that much drama. It feels so good knowing I’m expanding it and it’s not hijacking my life anymore
  • I feel SO connected with my partner
  • Sex is more fun
  • I love myself more than I ever have
  • I looked in the mirror and thought I looked like a goddess.
  • I’m having the best sex of my life

This work is about living life by design. NOT default.

I’ll meet you wherever you are, with whatever you need to bring.

Range of things covered include:

  • Nervous system support so you get off the overwhelm train
  • Increase mindfulness so you feel more deeply connected to life
  • Cultivate a mindset of pleasure so you can find pleasure in even the smallest things around you
  • Libido support and shifting desire discrepancy
  • Understand safer sex practices
  • Support for parents on how to talk to their kids about sex and sexual safety
  • Menopause related changes to sexuality and sexual functioning
  • Use yoga and tantra in every day ways to bring more connection to your life
  • Get a more pleasurable sex education so you can enjoy a deeply connected and pleasurable bedroom life that brings you closer together
  • Kick your shitty life training to the curb so that inner punitive parent has no power
  • Connect deeply with your partner and feel loved up

When you bring conscious pleasure into your life you’ll automatically regulate, and start putting yourself in the centre of your own life. CHOOSING you.

This journey is the exploration of what ‘more’ could look like.

Cause life IS the journey.

Imagine feeling empowered and ‘full’ on that journey, exploring what is possible, not from feeling broken, but from wanting to know what’s possible?

Together we’ll recognise the needs of your nervous system so you can regulate it, stabilise it, and keep yourself out of overwhelm (or know how to move from it quickly when it comes up).

And recognise the stories, limiting beliefs, shoulds, shitty life training, good girl/boy rules and begin to shift them, to open the bars enough that you can live life outside the cage in safety and ease.

Through this process, you’ll learn to know, love and accept yourself.
Warts and all as the saying goes.

And we do it using simple, easy to integrate tools and ideas that support you to come back to your own truth and body wisdom.

What happens when you live your way?

Relationships improve.
Your health and overall well-being improves.
You have a positive mindset.
You love yourself more.
You have less criticism towards your body.
Your self-talk is kinder.
You know what you want and can ask for it.


Communication improves.
Sex improves.
You feel better in your skin.
You stop swinging off the pantry door aka no more emotional eating.
Your parenting is easier.
Work flows more slowly.
Client attraction increases.
You feel more confident.
You buy clothes you LOVE and feel great in.
Decisions become easier.
There is deep pleasure in your life.
You have strong boundaries.
You find joy in small things.
Your self-care becomes easier, more natural.

Choose your own pleasure-venture:

QUICKIE single wham bam thank you ma’am

Perfect for the pleasure seeker who wants to work traditionally with a single session and perhaps some follow-up sessions.

Use for pleasure in life or sexology.


1 x 60-minute session.
Includes comprehensive questionnaire for the first appointment.

AUD $200 book here

AROUSE 3 month exploration

For the pleasure seeker who loves connection and has a desire that needs support to bring it to life. This journey will initiate your desire, self-knowledge and communication skills, honing your mindset and self-love for more intimate connection, confident love-making and self-expression.

*6 x 60-minute sessions.
*message/voice/email support between sessions
*bespoke resources and meditations

Pay in full AUD $1665

Pay in full package here

AUD $555/month

Pay with 3 x monthly payments here


Wanna know how it feels to be held this way and to know what’s possible for your life? Book a 30 minute chat here pleasure session